I realize that this may be a totally foolhardy venture. Young folks aren't known for their willingness to listen to, much less heed, advice from their seniors. I was there once. I understand. I, too, once thought I didn't need to hear from anyone older, and therefore more out-of-touch with reality, than myself. Later, it became obvious that these were the notions of ignorant, impetuous youth, not wisdom. Hearing this will convince no one, I'm sure. I offer it just the same, because I know it's good advice. Ignore it at your own peril.
Pearl #1 - Cultivate discipline early in your life .
It's a lot easier than trying to later in life when you realize that you're an undisciplined oaf. Learn to control your urges. Say no to yourself. When I say this, I mean all your urges. Make yourself skip a meal when you want to eat, just to prove you can. Forego the fun thing for something productive or helpful to someone else. Be the master of your appetites.
Pearl #2 - Always think before speaking.
This is a hard one to master. It's not necessarily a bad thing not to speak at every instance. If you can't think of anything worthwhile to say, don't say anything. I'm not necessarily referring to hurtful things. I'm also referring to stupid things. The thing which will most quickly prove that you are a fool is your own mouth.
Pearl #3 - Learn contentment.
If you can't be happy with what you have now, you will never be happy with what you will have later. Never.
(more to come)
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